When Kaifi Azmi’s affection for ‘Dulhan Pasha’ Tanvi Azmi left daughter Shabana Azmi ‘insecure’: ‘Tum mere gulab ke phool ho’

Kaifi was an Urdu exponent, a literature laureate and a film lyricist, married to theater and film actor Shaukat Azmi. Recalling how Kaifi held the women of the house and around him in high regard, Tanvi added that her ‘Abba’ practiced what he wrote. “His work was in sync with his philosophy that women should be respected. Be it his wife, daughter, or daughter-in-law, he accorded the same respect to each one of us. To the extent that it sometimes made Shabana insecure with the amount of love and affection, Abba showered on me,” Tanvi said.

Shabana Azmi with her mother Shaukat Azmi and father Kaifi Azmi. (Photo: Express Archives)

This would leave Shabana Azmi, a Bollywood legend herself, insecure. But according to Tanvi, her father-in-law had his way to appease his daughter too, who he affectionately called ‘chiriya’ and ‘gulab ka phool’. Though “hell broke loose” when Shabana once overheard him telling Tanvi, “Bete, tum mere gulab ke phool ho.”

“She (Shabana) asked him, ‘Abba aapne Tanvi ko gulab ka phool kaha?’ His quick retort was, ‘Nahi bete, main toh gobi ka phool (cauliflower) keh raha tha.’ Then he looked into my direction suggesting ‘don’t give me away’,” Tanvi said in the interview with a smile.

Shabana Azmi and Tanvi Azmi with their spouses Javed Akhtar and Baba Azmi respectively. (Photo: Express Archives)

Even his last days in the ICU couldn’t deter his zest for life. Tanvi shared that whenever she would ask him about his health, he would reply ‘First class!’ Later, when it got difficult for him to speak, he would raise his thumb to imply ‘first class’.

Kaifi Azmi is a recipient of two National Awards — Best Lyrics for Saat Hindustani and Best Story for Garam Hawa.